Winning Back Your Ex

Winning back your ex is a resource for anyone desperately trying to get back with their ex. This blog was started to provide people who are trying to get back together with their ex girlfriends or ex boyfriends real and valuable advice. The advice can be edgy and abrasive. If you are looking for someone to lie to you...Go elsewhere.

8/20/09

Magic of Making Up - The Low Down Real Deal

Hey Fool,

You must LOVE being lied to!!

As you can see I put a lot of time and effort into promoting T.W. Jackson's Magic of Making Up. As you can also see I pride myself on being straight forward and honest with anyone who happens to stumble upon this page. In that spirit I am going to share a little secret with you:

Anytime anyone buys Magic of Making Up someone gets a percentage of the sale. Because of this people market the crap out of the product (which I clearly suck at) and tell all types of lies, misleading stories and even total fabrications of situations. They make mushy "pink" web sites that are just filled with crap.

You can already tell that this site is not like that. Haha. I am one of the few people that got the book, (expecting to be asking for a refund) used it and THEN decided to spread the word about it. (I had bought other books that were all "fluff" and junk and figured this was just another one jumping on the bandwagon)

I was so tired of all the "There is hope" and "You can do it!" sites that I wanted to just be real and up front with mine. That is why some of the time I can be a little mean. I can break it down into one sentence:

The Magic of Making Up helped me a lot and there is a good possibility that if you need relationship advice it can help you too.

There ya go! No bonuses or false promises, I can't make you rich over night or make you acne disappear in an hour. (<-- poking fun at some other "awesome" sites you may find out there)

Check out this video from the author, T.W. Jackson, which has E mails from other people who have used Magic of Making Up. (geezzzz you won't just take my word for it? haha)



Here is T.W. Jackson's page where you can get all the information on Magic of Making Up and then make your own informed decision as to if this book will help you our not.

Don't let the other guys LIE to you anymore!

8/17/09

Win Back Your Ex - Boyfriend or Girlfriend

Win Back Your Ex - Boyfriend or Girlfriend. Basically, get off your butt and stop wasting time!



This video is about 5 mins long. I made it out of frustration. I understand how you are feeling now after a break up or desperate to know how to win back your ex. I have been there and this helped me so much that I made this page just to promote it. That is why it frustrates me that so many people come here looking for help or searching for answers but they get all "whaaaaaa" when I show them a site that sells an awesome book.

If this video does not get the point across I may consider another one where I am just yelling, flipping out or just laughing.

I just know that when I was in my break up I would have given my left....well... a lot for what I learned here. After it all worked out I felt like I robbed T.W. Jackson by only paying $39.

The Magic of Making Up offers understanding and reasons AND a plan based on human nature not some half cocked B.S.

I am not even going to put a link in this post, it is over there on the right. If you can't find it well then there may actually be no hope for you.

If you do find it...CLICK IT!!!!!!...and get the most logical and imformative way to win back your ex.

8/4/09

How to Get an Ex Boyfriend Back-These 3 Steps Will Get Him Back in Your Arms

Editorial Note: This author provides some valuable tips on How to get an ex boyfriend back. If you are seriously considering ways to get your ex boyfriend back a must check out resource is T.W. Jackson's Magic of Making Up. Just click the image of the book to the right.


By Jane Mccarthy

Have you been attempting to determine how to win an ex boyfriend back, but you're not sure how to go about it? I feel ya! Things are rough for you now. You've got all these differing thoughts and feelings going through your mind. Your desire is to learn how to get an ex boyfriend back, but you lack any kind of strategy.

This is a very bad place to be. If you just go with your feelings and try to go about this without thinking things through, it could make things far worse. Before you do any more damage to your chances to win him back, take a step back, think things through and get a plan. Here is a 3 step plan on how to get an ex boyfriend back that has been used successfully by many women:

1. Don't come off as desperate or needy

I know the temptation. You want to call him up and tell him how badly you feel about the breakup. You want to cry on the phone and make him feel sorry for you. This may work with your parents, but it WONT work with most guys. The first step in how to get an ex boyfriend back is to put an end to this kind of behavior. Now is not the time to seek his sympathy, now is the time to be strong!

2. Stop calling him for a while.

Step two to how to get an ex boyfriend back is to stop calling or seeing him for a while. This goes hand in hand with step one. If you are apart from him, you will not show neediness or desperation. In fact, the opposite will occur. He will start to miss you and wonder about you. I know this is a hard step, but it important that you follow through because it is a key part of your plan.

3. Focus your mind on other things

Ok, so you're thinking "if I can't contact him, what do I do with my time?" That's a great question. Again the answer is simple, but not necessarily easy. The third step to how to get an ex boyfriend back is to use your "no contact' period (about a month or so) to focus on things OTHER than him. He doesn't have to be the center of your universe. So, reconnect with some old friends, spend more time at work, get into a hobby you always wanted to do.

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7/29/09

How To Get Back My Ex Boyfriend


Do you think you really know "How to get back my ex boyfriend?" I bet you have some crazy plan in your head. I am pretty sure it is all you think about all day. You just want to get back your ex boyfriend. Luckily, for you this post will get your started in the right track. I can be a bit mean or harsh at times but rest assured it is only because I KNOW the advice I give works and it is frustrating when people don't bother to take it.

Chances are you did a search for something related to getting back your boyfriend. You have probably found tons and tons of articles and sites giving all types of advice and miracle solutions. This is not one of them. My advice comes from personal experience which we know, is the best teacher.

The first thing you need to keep in mind about your ex boyfriend is that for one reason or another you two are not together right now. You may have messed up or he may have messed up, either way it does not matter. If your goal is to get him back you first need to accept that the relationship you guys had is over. Obviously, there was some kind of problems with it if you are in this situation. The goal now is to start a new relationship with the same person. Do you understand so far?

In order to get this on the right track you are going to need to start fresh. Are you ready to let the past be the past and just look toward the future? If you are not then you might as well give this up now and do your next Google search for puppies or something. Still with me? O.K. now we are looking toward the future.

Space is going to be the best thing EVER right now. This means for you and for him. This will give you guys a chance to get back to who you were when you first fell in love. This is a time where you should be reestablishing neglected friendships, taking a day trip you have been wanting to take and over all just enjoying you.

Of course, this also means no crazy ex girlfriend stuff. That includes showing up at places you know he will be, massive amounts of text messages, E mails, Phone calls and yes instant messages and BBMs count too. I said "crazy ex girlfriend" stuff because that is exactly how your ex boyfriend is going to see it. The only thing you will accomplish is pushing him farther away...possibly forever.

Now it is time for a serious step that frankly, only the people who are dead set on "how do I get my ex boyfriend back" actually take. It's called getting help! I have reccomended T.W. Jackson's Magic of Making Up book all over the place. Why am I trying to get you to spend 39 bucks on a book?

#1 He explains why things happen and the thoughts and feelings behind them. He does not just say "do this"

#2 He offers plans, stratigies and soultions for almost every situation. Remember how I said you need to start a new relationship with the same person? He has a "clean slate" method that outlines exactly how to do it.

#3 If you think it really sucks you got 60 days to get your money back. Lets face it, comapred to the heartache and pain you have now....$39 bucks is not that much.

Anyway, I can only offer you the door, I can't push your ass through it. Hopefully, you can gather enough information and actually get back your ex boyfriend.

No More Fighting - Relationship Advice That Can Save Your Relationship



By Lynn Huber

We all have a point of view that will collide in one way or the other. Our likes and enjoyments as well as our dislikes may not always be the same nor are our moods. A simple miscommunication can lead to misunderstanding. When extended and stressed, a misunderstanding can lead to with matches of rage, rounds of intense arguments and worse, uncalled fist - fights and other dispositions of violence and abuse.

It is a fact that we are all unique and different individuals. We are designed to be diverse and distinct. Yet it is in our natural diversity that our spontaneity to love emanates and it is in this uniqueness that we fight and disagree.

As emotional beings, we long for tenderness and love. Although a relationship does not at all assure a "bed-of-roses", we still take the risk to love because of what and who we are. Fighting in a relationship is natural. It makes us human and fallible. In fact, a relationship without fighting is something special and possibly, all too unreal.

When you start to disagree and learn to speak your mind, quite unknowingly you are opening up to your partner. Evidently, transparency is also important in building a strong basis for the relationship to flourish. If your transparency heats up an argument or perhaps your candidness picks up a fight, do not lose heart. It is the start of something more deep and lasting.

"Do Not Let the Sun Go down When You Are Still Upset"

It is a mutual task to learn how to fix a fighting relationship. For your relationship to grow, try to always settle the misunderstanding or stop the fight. Do not sustain the agony. As a proverb says, "Do not let the sun set while you are still angry." Make it a point to talk with your partner the events and concerns involved. At the end of the day, do your best to sleep peacefully without carrying a heavy burden.

"Always Seek a Moral Example from the Fight"

It is valuable to fight when you learn a good lesson out of every misunderstanding. If either one of you stays shut down and unmoved, the fight was just a useless emotional crap.

Learn to Assume the Mistake and Move Forward

Humility and acceptance is important while learning how to fix a fighting relationship. The person who is at fault should bear the mistake that caused the fight or no one else will. Learning to accept, after all, makes you a better and more adorable person.

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7/24/09

He Said He Wants Space – Can I Get My Boyfriend Back?

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It happens all the time. One second you think everything is all well and good then BAM he said he wants more space. You are blindsided and you are wondering “Can I get my boyfriend back?” Well there may be many reasons for him requesting space and until you try to understand them you will not be able to get him back.

He Said He Wants Space #1

You need to keep yourself in mind. This will help you to understand what is going on with your boyfriend. You want to get him thinking that you were a major loss to his life. You can do this by not being so available to him and playing a little hard to get.

He Said He Wants Space #2

It is a good idea to let him initiate communication. That means if he texts you then you should respond but not be overbearing. Just to let him know that you are honoring his request for space but you are still interested in him. You want to keep any communication as un-dramatic as possible. If he calls keep the conversation light and brief.

He Said He Wants Space #3

He should begin to realize that his request for space may eventually make him lose you forever. He should start calling you more and asking to hang out. Keep being fairly selective as you want him to be sure of his feelings before jumping right into things again.

If you boyfriend said that he wants space there are many different tactics and strategies you can use to be sure that you will get him back. It is very important to get as much information as possible as this is a very touchy situation and you could wind up pushing him away forever.

By FAR the best thing to do would be review T.W. Jackson's book Magic of Making Up so you can get all the tactics and planning you need to get him back the right way. If you want to know about winning back your ex then he is the guy to "show you the light!"

7/10/09

My Boyfriend Just Dumped Me! – How Can I Get My Boyfriend Back?


It happens all the time to everyone. Girls everywhere are saying “my boyfriend just dumped me”. The point is you are not alone. The good news is that if you are wondering how can I get my boyfriend back then there are ways, very powerful ways to make this happen. You should also know that 90% of relationships can be fixed and saved. The odds are in your favor providing you know exactly what to do and what not to do.

Here are some quick ideas on what not to do.

My Boyfriend Just Dumped Me No-No #1

Do not become a crazy stalker. This may seem a little mean at first but hear me out. If you start to text him non-stop, E Mail and IM him he will never miss you. Actually, he will start to think of you as annoying. This will not help you when trying to get your boyfriend back. It is ok to let him know that you still have feelings but don’t overdo it.

My Boyfriend Just Dumped Me No-No #2

Do not become “That Girl”. What I mean by that girl is the girl that is always going out and going home with different guys every weekend. Again, this might sound mean but people do things out of character when they are desperate. It is ok for him to see you talking to other guys here and there. It will give him the impression that he might really be losing you and he has to act now. If he finds out you have been getting around that will just seal the break up for him.

If you are serious about getting him back (by serious I mean you are seeking constructive and effective help) then you need to get a good plan. There are many resources out there and some of them are just downright horrible. Don’t take the chance at losing the man you love forever.

If you ARE serious and want to know how can I get my ex boyfriend back check out what 6,100 other people have already have... T.W. Jackson's Magic of Making Up. This powerful book will have him running back to YOU in no time!