Winning Back Your Ex

Have you just gone through a break up? The fact is nearly every adult experiences some kind of break up. Are you thinking about what you can do to go about getting your ex back? Most people just throw in the towel and torment themselves with the task of moving on. Do you want to live with the question “What could have been?” Getting your ex back requires some work, careful planning and a sure fire strategy.

Did you know that 90 percent of the time there is no reason why people can’t get back with their ex. The first thing you are going to need to do is determine what happened and what actually caused the break up. This is very important because even though you can’t change what already happened, you can learn from the past and use it to your advantage when getting your ex back. You have to see what

The second important thing to figure out is if this break up happened because of one single incident or is it something that had been building for a while. If you know the incident you can see what it was that went wrong and then work on fixing it. If it was an ongoing thing then you need to figure out what behaviors or things bothered your ex so much that they broke up with you. If you are very serious about getting your ex back then you need to figure these things out and then get the right advice on planning how you should proceed.

One major thing to keep in mind when working on this is to not do things that will push your ex further away. You should use this time to build your self confidence. You should not be constantly haunting your ex and come off as a weak and needy person. This will only push them away. You should almost be proving that you are just fine without them. Your confidence and strength with actually improve your chances of getting your ex back.

One other pitfall people usually encounter if their need to make their ex jealous or trying to get them back. This is a very bad idea as it does not promote any positive feelings in either one of you. If you act this way it will send the message to your ex that you have totally moved on and that you have no more interest and they should do the same thing. If you are serious about getting your ex back then you need to follow these pointers but also learn as much as you can so you can develop a solid strategy that will be able to get your ex back for you.

In Your Corner,

Mikey A.