Winning Back Your Ex

When a break up happens there are a lot of questions that arise. If one of your questions is "How does one go about winning back your ex" then you need to get the right things to do. Most of the time people are fed purely by emotion and manage to do all the wrong things. By operating on pure emotion you will just push your ex further away and lose all hope of winning them back. This article includes 5 hot tips for winning back your ex that this author learned from a leader in relationship advice, Mr. T.W. Jackson.

Tip #1 - Cut Down communication.
This may seem like the wrong thing to do at this point. Emotionally, all you want to do is talk to your ex and fix things right now. This is not a good idea because everything is still fresh and both of you have not had much time to think and sort things out. This is the time to take a little break. Do not be rude but do not return calls right away and avoid sending text messages all the time. Texting is still communicating! This will also show your ex what life is like without you in it, which will help your cause

Tip #2 - Show You Strength
You know you have it! It's right there, that strong confident person. This is not the time to begin begging your ex. This is not the time to start showing up where you know they will be. The idea is to show them that you are just fine without them. This will also give your ex the idea that they are missing you and you are not. It might be time for them to act and try to make an effort to get you back!

Tip #3 - Don't Stay Home!
I know, right now you are pretty hurt and an emotional mess. This is the exact reason that you should be hanging out with friends and doing new things. Don't mistake the advice here, this does not mean go on as much dates as possible. This means spending time with friends to clear your mind and have a little fun. By showing you are able to function your ex may realize exactly what they lost.

It is very important to remember to be who you really are. You had a life before you met your ex and there is no reason why there is not a life after. Keep in mind that your ex fell in love with the person you were when they met you so getting back to the person is a very important step when winning back your ex.

Mikey A.